She comes home uncontrollably crying and there is nothing that can stop her. Or she wants to toss something across the room and may hit you, watch the fuck out.
Hey guys out there.I know you are a Mr. Fix it and love solving problems but I also know you enjoy listening to your girl and you want to help her but here is a tip I am going to give you to save some time, energy and maybe a fight in the future, or even a shutdown.
Simple fact: When a woman is an emotional mess, crying or upset in anyway we just want the one we love to listen. Yes JUST listen.
Put away the tool box and band-aids.
It’s amazing the response you will get from your girl if you take the time to sit there and give her a head nod, an “i’m sorry that really sucks”, “I’m sorry your boss is an asshole”, or “come here let me hug you”.
It’s like magic! Women don’t want to be fixed because we are not broken, we are not a chipped piece of wood, or a closet that has fallen off the hinges, we are emotional beings, as you are but we physically show it in our screams, cries, may look depressed at times face.
It’s a fun fact that being a woman comes with showing our emotions on the outside and all we need is the loving support of the man we love. That’s all.
Take this to heart, really… and let me know how much better life is.